life changes part 2

So nothing is settled in my life right now... and I haven't wanted to write about it/admit it for a while.
I'm still looking for a job, both here and in Texas.
I actually just found out that a job I was really interested in I didn't get. So that's fun.

I've gone back and forth for weeks about staying in Virginia or moving to Texas. And last week I prayed that the Lord would give me a sign about what I'm supposed to do by the middle of this week. So now I'm asking is this the sign I prayed for?

I mean there are other jobs that I've applied for, but I asked the Lord specifically for a sign, and today I don't get a job here.

I don't know what I'm going to do... still.

There's a part of me that wants to move to Texas to be closer to my family, to help them with their church (that's a big desire). But then I know that my life there would be so different from my life here. I have friends here that I love and enjoy spending time with. Going out late on a Saturday night to just talk and catch up. Or just to have these friends to call when I'm down. It's such a blessing. I know that I could find friends in Texas, but I know that it wouldn't be the same. At least not at first.

So that's where I'm at. Asking God if this is the sign that I asked Him for, or if I need to wait longer. Any thoughts?